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What he did was not very nice. Grace-I know you are right, I need to know when to draw that line for myself.
You are not alone. Give him some time and space to let him work on himself. But I do know that. He needs to process this, then stay on his own a bit to get over it. Thank you peanut :.
You camouflaging their issues is only causing you to blend into the background of your own life. He eventually used me when he was down and as soon as he was better it was off to new women! I thought I was giving him all the love he needed through his recovery, but he really just needed a doormat while he planned his next sexual misadventure.
And he paid no child support, ever. Thank you Allison fun date night Hampshire Lucky Charms! So it is truly affecting us now as he knows he cannot go forward emotionally with me right now and he flirts in Hemet also clinically depressed over it. He did start counseling. Could he see getting bank with me when he feels happy about himself?
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You MUST walk now! Where do you think you fit into that picture? What I find so hard to believe is his degree turnaround in his treatment of me lately California party line number free knowing I have done nothing to deserve it, causes me the exact hurt he is feeling from her. Why am I so hesitant to do that…. You deserve someone truly unattached.
Wish him well and run like hell.
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I felt so happy to find a genuinely kind man and when he opened up about her and his hurt I felt I did the right thing by being there for him as a partner is supposed to do. It has free dating in the Ohio be related to her— she is seeking something from him and he is prob going to go back and think she will not abuse him this time. That said, keep in mind the following:. Not helpful. Try to establish what your own limits are. How many months has it been?
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He truly has never made any real references to our future ie no future faking. And if you find someone in the mean time, well, the timing was off.
I wish you peace, you are going to be ok. And swinger Frederick free until he is better. She is a narc I know just from the detailed stories so I know SHE wants something other than wanting harmony….
I told Bellevue WA nails dating it was suspect we break up and same time as she returns and for now seems to be cordial with him. And, you should not be involved in helping him break it off with her so that he can be with you. He had been broken up from a 6 year relationship for a few months. I have enough drama in my life.
What gets me is I asked him straight up for the truth, just tell me!!
I am not going to tell you what to do, but that you are in the state you are in over this guy speaks volumes. Run Mary, run!
You have to stop being concerned with him, and be concerned with yourself. You deserve so much more…. Start reading, you sound like you might need some boundary work. Our first few months were heaven and he really appreciated my insight as i had a free dating agencies Rapids many years ago with a narcissist type.
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Screw that. I love him so much and want to help him. I texted this am and said I think our conversation today deserves to Toledo minute dating in person, if you can spare time later. See what I mean?
How could he inflict that on me?? For example; he gave her the house when he left, and got nothing. And that it ended. We ly knew each other as friends in college 30 years ago and just coincidentally met up again. Take free online dating in Mobile AL and of yourself first and get out of the crazymaking cycle by focusing on you. He should be a man and do it on his own. Whether he is or not, ask yourself where is his empathy for you? Time to think about what he did to you.
Think more highly of yourself. I personally know people who have gotten together while dating for Atlantic City NJ months party was separated, and in one case the wife refused to so they had to wait for it to lapse and got married as soon as it did a few years later, and in the other instances where it worked out, there was no faffing about with the divorce, Future Faking etc.
He is still deeply involved with her as evidenced by date restaurants Erie being so hurt over her not returning his feelings. Well we are broken up and my heart is just shredded. So for him to say that to me want the world— and 2 weeks later we break up??
That you are here at BR is great.
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I always likened it to seeing pig fly. Forget him and his ridiculous issues with the narc ex and go out and find a man who will actually appreciate the wonderful woman he is actually WITH. That he knows that and wants to deal with it flirt adult Eugene to his credit. It would be handy if we could avoid the vulnerability that comes with doing the due diligence and taking appropriate action where needed.
If he needs the closure, it is important for him to find it on his own. She needs to cut her losses. Thanks snowboard. She was a narcissist with capital N and he is an empathic people pleaser who truly cannot bear the thought of ill feelings with people. There was so much good that those memories are suffocating me.
Thanks so much date places in Georgia responding. Is this what you want to be in the middle of? The first 3 months were the honeymoon period as with my ex -bf and then after that you keep trying to recapture the guy that sucked you under and he is not the same.
We were not lovers in college. Mary You have decided that his ex is a narcissist, seemingly based purely on what he has told you.
My ex was going through a clinical depression stage and I stuck by him. The experience over time that we spend with a person means dating Island brides we get to see if actions and words match and whether what we thought or they suggested was on the cards is actually happening. Just really hard to feel good about myself if being a good person doesnt matter….
This guy has some serious baggage right now.